However, asexuality was – and still is – more widely discussed than demisexuality. This is in part because the former is easier for people who aren’t asexual to conceptualise. Someone who’s asexual “experiences little to no sexual attraction”, says Kaszyca. “It’s a pretty easy tagline to use.” But adding on top of that “except when they develop a deep emotional connection”, can sometimes leave allosexuals scratching their heads.