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emiliasingle · Veteran Member

sexual harassment and what to do?

urongamon · Veteran Member

This is an awkward situation; you are certainly correct for interpreting it as sexual harassment. It would be considered that in any other setting, and it is inherently evil. You have my prayers. First, seek the Lord about it; He may convict your stepdad to repentance, and that may be the end of it. He may also direct you to take different action. Ask specifically for protection for yourself and your kids, and for a new place to live. Second, subject to God's direction, file a police charge for sexual assault. Since neither the abuser nor your mom sees anything wrong, you are likely to be subjected to such abuse until you deal with it. Moving out may protect you and your kids, but won't deal with the root of the problem, and the abuser may turn to others to vent his evil inclinations.

Clotibrut · Veteran Member

I know the thread is old but I still wanna say I'm so sorry to hear about what you've been going through with your mom's boyfriend. It's not okay for him to make you feel uncomfortable or to touch you inappropriately. You did the right thing by telling your mom, but it's not okay that she shrugged it off. It's unfair and messed up. Tasha, if you're still with us, I want you to know that you're not alone. It's okay to feel overwhelmed and unsure about what to do in this situation. It's important to take steps to protect yourself. You can check out this link: https://digitalinvestigation.com/blackmail for valuable information on dealing with blackmail and seeking legal recourse.